緣份, 是找到包容你的人

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$ i* n/ ~: v3 Q+ u有一個男人, 為了參加第二天的小學同學會，特地上街, 買一條新長褲。
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A man bought a new pair of trousers for his primary school mates’ reunion dinner. When he tried out at home, he found that the trousers were too long by 10cm.
他回家穿上後，卻發覺長度多了十公分。於是請求媽媽替他改。
媽媽說，身體不舒服，想早一點休息,今晚不想改。
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) k4 d7 _* J3 \7 m  L& VHe asked his mother to help him shorten the pants. His mother said she could not do it as she was not feeling well and would like to rest early.      
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8 P/ |7 `/ d# k' ]) LSo the man approached his wife to shorten his pants. His wife said she was very tired and had a lot of work to do that night, so she could not help him to shorten the pants that night.
  c9 u* Z( b6 h- Z& k於是, 改請求女兒替他改。女兒說，今晚跟男朋友約好去跳舞，沒有時間改。

Then the man asked his daughter. His daughter apologized for not able to do it that night because she had agreed to go dancing with her boyfriend
他想想，既然如此，明天穿舊的長褲去同學會也可以！
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: m- H% s  f5 _4 ]6 s"Ah well!" The man thought and decided he could wear his old trousers to the reunion.
6 f# h9 Z% c! U: T1 c; H' ?當天晚上，他媽媽心想：「兒子平時對我很孝順，他開口要求總不好拒絕他。」於是，起來替兒子改長褲，剪短了十公分。     

5 i9 e/ q9 S* a. G$ n  C/ n; ULater that night, his mother thought to herself, "My son has been very nice to me.     I ' ll just help him to shorten his pants before going to rest." So she shortened the pants by 10cm.  
" |8 |' z( p; U2 j他太太稍晚做完家事, 心想：「老公平時很有耐心，今天他是不會縫針線才開口要求，總不好拒絕他.」於是替先生改長褲，剪短了十公分。

Then his wife finished her work and thought," My husband knows I am always very busy and seldom asked me to help him. I would oblige him today." So she shortened the man ' s pants by another 10cm.  
他女兒晚上回來： 「爸爸不阻止我去跳舞，實在是開明的老爸，今天實在應該替他修改長褲。」於是替爸爸改長褲，剪短了十公分。  

, ~/ U% G) o0 V& `0 j! lHis daughter came home from dancing, and thought, "Papa loves me very much and when I declined to shorten his pants, he was not angry at all! I would help him to shorten his pants." So she shortened her daddy ' s pants yet another 10cm.
2 ~6 Y5 Z1 Q$ v) ^7 s第二天早上，三個女人分別告訴男主人此事。他一試長褲，已經變成七分褲了。   

# b' C* y5 Y/ b. gOn the next day, the three ladies told the man that his pants were shortened. He tried them on and found that his pants had become shorter by 30cm!  
/ y' D- \) u( a1 \8 k( K7 i他的反應「是...............」   
4 k. x5 m9 m1 Q2 ~) R& t( ?( z哈哈一笑，說：「我一定要穿去給同學看，告訴他們，
9 r% e3 ?0 z2 c" `我的媽媽、太太、和女兒對我多好。」
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, q8 K! S; O$ D8 b- H1 i$ ^His reaction:
$ u1 j' e0 s. ^9 T3 E0 QHe laughed heartily, and said, "I must wear this pair of pants to show my schoolmates that my mum, my wife and my daughter are such loving people."
結果，老同學們一致稱讚他家庭經營成功。
他的媽媽、太太、和女兒也都很高興。
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. M5 ~6 L! @  LAt the dinner, his old classmates were very envious of his loving family. His mother, wife and daughter were very happy to learn about his classmates ' reaction.  
6 w( L! ?+ D9 e如果您是故事中的男人或女人，當下您會做何反應？
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「哈哈一笑」抑或「破口大罵」？
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- F0 a) @. M' RWhat would you do if it happened to you?
Have a good laugh, or start swearing?
人，面對外人時，總是可以表現得雍容大肚、心平氣和，但面對自己最親近的家人，卻往往一點小事,就足以皺起眉頭，甚至出言相傷。
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, M6 [+ ?: Y. S/ F2 m( l3 q) L0 tMany of us have "High EQ" when dealing with people outside the family, "Low EQ" when dealing with our own family members!  This is not an exaggeration at all.
/ G- R8 e- a/ C' J" F$ {8 N2 H; Q如果形容人類是一種「出門高E.Q，回家低E.Q」的動物，我想一點兒也不誇張，
多拿出一點耐心與幽默感給家人吧！否則您自己也不會快樂，不是嗎？
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也許,  我只是你生命中的過客...並未留下任何痕跡..但我希望的是...
5 I; M3 m0 @" p( l3 M& l# [當你回想起過去的時候..在你回憶中的那個我,是無可取代的..
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" ]3 d0 N+ G7 f7 W. a緣份,是找到包容你的人.      

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人，面對外人時，總是可以表現得雍容大肚、心平氣和，但面對自己最親近的家人，卻往往一點小事,就足以皺起眉頭，甚至出言相傷。
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多拿出一點耐心與幽默感給家人吧！否則您自己也不會快樂，