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有一個男人, 為了參加第二天的小學同學會,特地上街, 買一條新長褲。 8 G' k$ V2 o2 y
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A man bought a new pair of trousers for his primary school mates’ reunion dinner. When he tried out at home, he found that the trousers were too long by 10cm.7 Q- O5 b: m. o5 q4 V9 ]! y
他回家穿上後,卻發覺長度多了十公分。於是請求媽媽替他改。
5 g8 y3 Q4 E# h# @! X7 E媽媽說,身體不舒服,想早一點休息,今晚不想改。
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He asked his mother to help him shorten the pants. His mother said she could not do it as she was not feeling well and would like to rest early.      7 I2 H: \" P! ~2 l( W, b
於是, 改請求太太替他改。太太說,還有許多家事要做,今晚沒有時間改。  & k: u7 M$ i  ], o/ w, f1 e

- D4 Q+ O5 L2 C3 mSo the man approached his wife to shorten his pants. His wife said she was very tired and had a lot of work to do that night, so she could not help him to shorten the pants that night. ( @0 J% L; a- n  L% I/ G: l
於是, 改請求女兒替他改。女兒說,今晚跟男朋友約好去跳舞,沒有時間改。
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4 H/ H4 I. k. }: wThen the man asked his daughter. His daughter apologized for not able to do it that night because she had agreed to go dancing with her boyfriend 1 r) h9 I6 Z1 e! r
他想想,既然如此,明天穿舊的長褲去同學會也可以!
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8 I( _# n; S* g8 X) p7 q"Ah well!" The man thought and decided he could wear his old trousers to the reunion. $ ]" X; A9 X; l
當天晚上,他媽媽心想:「兒子平時對我很孝順,他開口要求總不好拒絕他。」於是,起來替兒子改長褲,剪短了十公分。     ; M& ?+ A; N# q# e" e4 p/ U& ~

7 H, F! E4 |+ e% K3 i6 iLater that night, his mother thought to herself, "My son has been very nice to me.     I ' ll just help him to shorten his pants before going to rest." So she shortened the pants by 10cm.  
' z; a9 M! R2 I3 x! x他太太稍晚做完家事, 心想:「老公平時很有耐心,今天他是不會縫針線才開口要求,總不好拒絕他.」於是替先生改長褲,剪短了十公分。 9 N+ D2 l3 S; `/ {. a
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Then his wife finished her work and thought," My husband knows I am always very busy and seldom asked me to help him. I would oblige him today." So she shortened the man ' s pants by another 10cm.  
0 T' q& s, }7 e% i+ v: U他女兒晚上回來: 「爸爸不阻止我去跳舞,實在是開明的老爸,今天實在應該替他修改長褲。」於是替爸爸改長褲,剪短了十公分。  . e) [9 @/ r" X  b" m# W$ N
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His daughter came home from dancing, and thought, "Papa loves me very much and when I declined to shorten his pants, he was not angry at all! I would help him to shorten his pants." So she shortened her daddy ' s pants yet another 10cm.
3 |( T' o* K0 Y* ~1 U/ g& ]: X& X第二天早上,三個女人分別告訴男主人此事。他一試長褲,已經變成七分褲了。   1 @5 }* R3 m- U$ \+ |: q0 ?9 \2 a
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On the next day, the three ladies told the man that his pants were shortened. He tried them on and found that his pants had become shorter by 30cm!  
7 L1 J- v" E/ `0 n+ z! \$ ^他的反應「是...............」   
( ]0 f) D5 P2 I% ?0 }哈哈一笑,說:「我一定要穿去給同學看,告訴他們,, R! j. o' i: B! g2 \" o+ d
我的媽媽、太太、和女兒對我多好。」
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His reaction:
- C" S: ?$ p( B* k9 j' ]# lHe laughed heartily, and said, "I must wear this pair of pants to show my schoolmates that my mum, my wife and my daughter are such loving people."
3 M- T0 t* C  [, v8 d結果,老同學們一致稱讚他家庭經營成功。8 A  @6 v6 r1 P/ f
他的媽媽、太太、和女兒也都很高興。

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& f1 z  C( o4 s& i$ nAt the dinner, his old classmates were very envious of his loving family. His mother, wife and daughter were very happy to learn about his classmates ' reaction.  
& G5 n. `* r4 |9 \! i如果您是故事中的男人或女人,當下您會做何反應?6 k3 g$ k; _8 M- o, ~8 j) P

1 k  k- {: a( k6 ~" }5 Q; J「哈哈一笑」抑或「破口大罵」? 4 X0 Q/ M. I: V. W) H

% K/ Y6 T6 P2 I" A) P( o! K& bWhat would you do if it happened to you? . t0 x: `* A, s* d
Have a good laugh, or start swearing?
- T: b/ h2 K4 P4 h+ e人,面對外人時,總是可以表現得雍容大肚、心平氣和,但面對自己最親近的家人,卻往往一點小事,就足以皺起眉頭,甚至出言相傷。
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Many of us have "High EQ" when dealing with people outside the family, "Low EQ" when dealing with our own family members!  This is not an exaggeration at all./ }! i1 C. W9 t% ?0 d
如果形容人類是一種「出門高E.Q,回家低E.Q」的動物,我想一點兒也不誇張, 4 j1 A7 m, n# B; M; O! F( ]
多拿出一點耐心與幽默感給家人吧!否則您自己也不會快樂,不是嗎? / p4 @+ A# f4 z. ?, M* t0 a
請傳閱,或許今天正有人需要它!
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3 }6 a6 `2 H5 z: c& z3 ^( Z/ t也許,  我只是你生命中的過客...並未留下任何痕跡..但我希望的是...
; u* o  C  y5 g- `當你回想起過去的時候..在你回憶中的那個我,是無可取代的..
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! T& X0 g6 t6 l0 `. B' i( i緣份,是找到包容你的人.
      
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人,面對外人時,總是可以表現得雍容大肚、心平氣和,但面對自己最親近的家人,卻往往一點小事,就足以皺起眉頭,甚至出言相傷。 , E. I8 {+ `+ X: y' K. F" a' T
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多拿出一點耐心與幽默感給家人吧!否則您自己也不會快樂,
在股票及期貨市場,散戶投資人成功的不二法門不外乎兩種,一是非常幸運;一是非常自律
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