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有一個男人, 為了參加第二天的小學同學會,特地上街, 買一條新長褲。 , K0 U2 E$ {7 R
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A man bought a new pair of trousers for his primary school mates’ reunion dinner. When he tried out at home, he found that the trousers were too long by 10cm.
+ n' v% g5 R/ h他回家穿上後,卻發覺長度多了十公分。於是請求媽媽替他改。1 p( g+ `0 |3 g
媽媽說,身體不舒服,想早一點休息,今晚不想改。
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3 K) R( c5 c' M0 a; U9 ~He asked his mother to help him shorten the pants. His mother said she could not do it as she was not feeling well and would like to rest early.      2 Y* ^5 @! B: n: f, e7 M  g
於是, 改請求太太替他改。太太說,還有許多家事要做,今晚沒有時間改。  7 M, Q$ `9 y' b. q% h; @4 K8 W
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So the man approached his wife to shorten his pants. His wife said she was very tired and had a lot of work to do that night, so she could not help him to shorten the pants that night.
7 d6 t& A9 V) {6 q1 \" D& [/ B於是, 改請求女兒替他改。女兒說,今晚跟男朋友約好去跳舞,沒有時間改。
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Then the man asked his daughter. His daughter apologized for not able to do it that night because she had agreed to go dancing with her boyfriend : Q7 c9 j( \2 Y6 Z" M2 f  E9 O
他想想,既然如此,明天穿舊的長褲去同學會也可以!
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/ A: _( L1 e3 I"Ah well!" The man thought and decided he could wear his old trousers to the reunion. 8 C( y- U8 D0 i
當天晚上,他媽媽心想:「兒子平時對我很孝順,他開口要求總不好拒絕他。」於是,起來替兒子改長褲,剪短了十公分。     
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  q, Q9 R/ h8 t* S$ oLater that night, his mother thought to herself, "My son has been very nice to me.     I ' ll just help him to shorten his pants before going to rest." So she shortened the pants by 10cm.  & p) z* P( H3 ]/ g+ }! o
他太太稍晚做完家事, 心想:「老公平時很有耐心,今天他是不會縫針線才開口要求,總不好拒絕他.」於是替先生改長褲,剪短了十公分。
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Then his wife finished her work and thought," My husband knows I am always very busy and seldom asked me to help him. I would oblige him today." So she shortened the man ' s pants by another 10cm.  . ]$ L4 w6 ~+ |' F* \% q
他女兒晚上回來: 「爸爸不阻止我去跳舞,實在是開明的老爸,今天實在應該替他修改長褲。」於是替爸爸改長褲,剪短了十公分。  6 K  L0 r  Y% z- p. l0 @+ r" d
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His daughter came home from dancing, and thought, "Papa loves me very much and when I declined to shorten his pants, he was not angry at all! I would help him to shorten his pants." So she shortened her daddy ' s pants yet another 10cm.
7 `/ N5 @4 Z+ s' ?9 D  s# s第二天早上,三個女人分別告訴男主人此事。他一試長褲,已經變成七分褲了。   
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On the next day, the three ladies told the man that his pants were shortened. He tried them on and found that his pants had become shorter by 30cm!  
: h4 q9 a7 P3 c: D他的反應「是...............」   
; Q+ k: v; W5 ?哈哈一笑,說:「我一定要穿去給同學看,告訴他們,. F2 n9 d/ ^( ]" v+ n  W/ P
我的媽媽、太太、和女兒對我多好。」
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& Y. O0 x$ r$ U6 RHis reaction:
, J9 X- _) W; f- cHe laughed heartily, and said, "I must wear this pair of pants to show my schoolmates that my mum, my wife and my daughter are such loving people."
$ X* ~. P+ C! W! ~7 X結果,老同學們一致稱讚他家庭經營成功。
: q/ F9 s3 f$ s# d1 D: t9 Z( u他的媽媽、太太、和女兒也都很高興。

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At the dinner, his old classmates were very envious of his loving family. His mother, wife and daughter were very happy to learn about his classmates ' reaction.  
; L3 p7 }, N% O0 T1 L如果您是故事中的男人或女人,當下您會做何反應?
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「哈哈一笑」抑或「破口大罵」? # F- `% e9 X( n, Y5 j
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What would you do if it happened to you? , z7 w/ A1 b1 q  W3 f6 X$ ?& [
Have a good laugh, or start swearing? / Z+ \$ z2 S0 O1 v& S  a
人,面對外人時,總是可以表現得雍容大肚、心平氣和,但面對自己最親近的家人,卻往往一點小事,就足以皺起眉頭,甚至出言相傷。 & ]7 M& w6 _9 \, J" M
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Many of us have "High EQ" when dealing with people outside the family, "Low EQ" when dealing with our own family members!  This is not an exaggeration at all.
3 ~) S' z2 E, t8 m如果形容人類是一種「出門高E.Q,回家低E.Q」的動物,我想一點兒也不誇張, 5 s+ _6 }8 r6 C* a, z9 p  T
多拿出一點耐心與幽默感給家人吧!否則您自己也不會快樂,不是嗎?
! _7 e! x6 Q0 S: B. X請傳閱,或許今天正有人需要它!
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" ^* E6 j6 N2 z0 S0 |也許,  我只是你生命中的過客...並未留下任何痕跡..但我希望的是...  W6 v! O% ~8 l+ G* `6 V3 g$ m
當你回想起過去的時候..在你回憶中的那個我,是無可取代的..3 r! \& |1 f  `
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人,面對外人時,總是可以表現得雍容大肚、心平氣和,但面對自己最親近的家人,卻往往一點小事,就足以皺起眉頭,甚至出言相傷。 ' h" U- z3 u( S( C  C5 K
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多拿出一點耐心與幽默感給家人吧!否則您自己也不會快樂,
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