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" r. ~6 n# \8 O7 g* C有一個男人, 為了參加第二天的小學同學會,特地上街, 買一條新長褲。
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  ^& x5 `+ q0 F2 ?A man bought a new pair of trousers for his primary school mates’ reunion dinner. When he tried out at home, he found that the trousers were too long by 10cm.2 C0 n( ?$ \3 I' T
他回家穿上後,卻發覺長度多了十公分。於是請求媽媽替他改。9 z9 \+ B% b+ ^. V. Y
媽媽說,身體不舒服,想早一點休息,今晚不想改。
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He asked his mother to help him shorten the pants. His mother said she could not do it as she was not feeling well and would like to rest early.      
' {, p  X8 C3 G於是, 改請求太太替他改。太太說,還有許多家事要做,今晚沒有時間改。  
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So the man approached his wife to shorten his pants. His wife said she was very tired and had a lot of work to do that night, so she could not help him to shorten the pants that night.
0 T' N0 m' s9 r# n; |於是, 改請求女兒替他改。女兒說,今晚跟男朋友約好去跳舞,沒有時間改。
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" P0 a+ r* p) W$ R/ RThen the man asked his daughter. His daughter apologized for not able to do it that night because she had agreed to go dancing with her boyfriend 3 k: ^  x5 p$ k7 Y  ?! B
他想想,既然如此,明天穿舊的長褲去同學會也可以! ' r7 x; D% b- L

9 T9 b* L6 t" x+ q"Ah well!" The man thought and decided he could wear his old trousers to the reunion.
5 T& G% C& {8 ~5 ]: S當天晚上,他媽媽心想:「兒子平時對我很孝順,他開口要求總不好拒絕他。」於是,起來替兒子改長褲,剪短了十公分。     6 T) Y4 J; A0 X& Y6 g
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Later that night, his mother thought to herself, "My son has been very nice to me.     I ' ll just help him to shorten his pants before going to rest." So she shortened the pants by 10cm.  % c$ K- B4 {' w4 l
他太太稍晚做完家事, 心想:「老公平時很有耐心,今天他是不會縫針線才開口要求,總不好拒絕他.」於是替先生改長褲,剪短了十公分。
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Then his wife finished her work and thought," My husband knows I am always very busy and seldom asked me to help him. I would oblige him today." So she shortened the man ' s pants by another 10cm.  
7 |/ Q. ^: {- P. N# R' i' g他女兒晚上回來: 「爸爸不阻止我去跳舞,實在是開明的老爸,今天實在應該替他修改長褲。」於是替爸爸改長褲,剪短了十公分。  
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His daughter came home from dancing, and thought, "Papa loves me very much and when I declined to shorten his pants, he was not angry at all! I would help him to shorten his pants." So she shortened her daddy ' s pants yet another 10cm., n2 T' \! o9 y! L' g% y
第二天早上,三個女人分別告訴男主人此事。他一試長褲,已經變成七分褲了。   
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On the next day, the three ladies told the man that his pants were shortened. He tried them on and found that his pants had become shorter by 30cm!  
, s: j6 B; I- ]) c他的反應「是...............」   1 S5 L- e4 k" v: C# f* ?
哈哈一笑,說:「我一定要穿去給同學看,告訴他們,* m7 r0 h' j* D3 |+ L: B) v
我的媽媽、太太、和女兒對我多好。」
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His reaction:
7 X% Z7 }- ]" r  k2 |He laughed heartily, and said, "I must wear this pair of pants to show my schoolmates that my mum, my wife and my daughter are such loving people."0 K) J* D- s$ w% K! |# @
結果,老同學們一致稱讚他家庭經營成功。
  c7 j: [5 V% a. [6 R' Y- U他的媽媽、太太、和女兒也都很高興。
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; e9 m2 |" I2 n6 U- xAt the dinner, his old classmates were very envious of his loving family. His mother, wife and daughter were very happy to learn about his classmates ' reaction.  7 H% e' d; C  ]
如果您是故事中的男人或女人,當下您會做何反應?6 _- J5 L3 A7 s3 e6 B! |

% h0 ~& Z% t" G3 c5 b* M, r" S「哈哈一笑」抑或「破口大罵」? 1 o4 `- W, a& F; {
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What would you do if it happened to you? 3 [$ d+ a/ M' Z4 m& F1 }- K
Have a good laugh, or start swearing? ) A8 |* C9 j. |/ x, h: E
人,面對外人時,總是可以表現得雍容大肚、心平氣和,但面對自己最親近的家人,卻往往一點小事,就足以皺起眉頭,甚至出言相傷。
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Many of us have "High EQ" when dealing with people outside the family, "Low EQ" when dealing with our own family members!  This is not an exaggeration at all.: l- b& P0 G' N9 s7 N( Z
如果形容人類是一種「出門高E.Q,回家低E.Q」的動物,我想一點兒也不誇張,
& C5 w6 R- z; M- k" F1 z多拿出一點耐心與幽默感給家人吧!否則您自己也不會快樂,不是嗎?
& a6 X* c4 h' b- X) R/ m0 D) J8 T; n請傳閱,或許今天正有人需要它!
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5 F% \. A' |# G8 R; x5 D* l也許,  我只是你生命中的過客...並未留下任何痕跡..但我希望的是...
" a# U3 y: D" J' r- E- B當你回想起過去的時候..在你回憶中的那個我,是無可取代的..
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2 A9 Y+ `8 Y; g# B" W, S2 R1 w5 M緣份,是找到包容你的人.
      
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人,面對外人時,總是可以表現得雍容大肚、心平氣和,但面對自己最親近的家人,卻往往一點小事,就足以皺起眉頭,甚至出言相傷。
5 l3 U) h1 ~3 l/ t' n8 }3 h8 y4 q很好的文章  
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多拿出一點耐心與幽默感給家人吧!否則您自己也不會快樂,
在股票及期貨市場,散戶投資人成功的不二法門不外乎兩種,一是非常幸運;一是非常自律
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