標題: 如何處理愤怒的情绪, Dealing with rude people [列印本頁] 作者: echiang 時間: 2012-6-19 10:52 標題: 如何處理愤怒的情绪, Dealing with rude people 我最近收到以下的文章，覺得對自己幫助很大，所以想和大家分享： k" `9 {/ ?+ h6 L0 n z! D( Z5 x( a7 a$ c* Q" e h9 t$ o
Dealing with Insult??$ J& y8 V+ W$ D ]$ L8 U; V
9 I `6 t9 G& }, POne day a Hindu priest was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. " You have no right teaching others," he shouted. "You are as stupid as everyone else. You are nothing but a fake." & Z2 m* D1 K6 }' S( N6 F8 U $ y* f& G, Z( ^8 c& wHindu priest was not upset by these insults. Instead he asked this young man, "Tell me, if you buy a gift for someone, and that person does not take it, to whom does this gift belong?1 e) k. h x) D! }
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The man was surprised to be asked such a strange question and answered, "It would belong to me, because I bought the gift." ! ]' l6 y3 V! B, E/ \2 d* f, d I% B1 n. }$ Q' Y! {7 ~
The priest smiled and said, "That is correct. And it is exactly the same with your anger. If you become angry with me and I do not get insulted then the anger falls back on you. You are then the only one who becomes unhappy, not me. All you have done is hurt yourself." 5 ~8 m+ m; h0 _$ X e V! d2 h" ~: a2 q0 a
"If you want to stop hurting yourself, you must get rid of your anger and become loving instead. When you hate others, you yourself become unhappy. But when you love others, everyone is happy..." 8 U0 B8 ^. d: p$ ~* I" D0 Y) m1 r* ^4 A7 [9 ]
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BEAUTIFUL QUOTE ON ANGER 6 K1 s: X- P% z& N' n9 D- m* f2 U& L% }
If you are right then there is no need to get angry; and if you are wrong then you don't have any right to get angry. Patience with family is love; patience with others is respect, patience with self is confidence. Never think hard about past, it brings tears. Don't think more about future, it brings fears. Live this moment with a smile, it brings cheers!!! Every tests in our lives makes us bitter or victorious. Search a beautiful heart not a beautiful face. Beautiful things are not always good; but good things are always beautiful. O# Z, b/ M" _) k " M* v1 N7 A6 d作者: echiang 時間: 2012-6-19 15:39
我將它翻繹成中文了！原文是 “Dealing with Insult?" (面對侮辱？）我想我們經常會遇见粗鲁無禮的人... ! j/ E- }2 Q/ l+ v7 Y b; y想想這裡所説的... 7 ^7 _) {1 c' R: S: x. l# J+ [+ T
無論是出去走一圈，還是整理抽屉，如何能够幫助你缓和下來，就自己安静一下，不要軽易被激怒！希望這篇短文能够成為多人的鼓勵！* X, i6 S& _8 q6 S, G( B
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有一位印度僧人走過一個村莊。一個氣憤粗魯的年青人近前來破口大罵。“你沒有資格教導別人，”他大聲嚷嚷。“你跟別人一樣的愚蠢。你是騙子”。6 ?3 u, O/ M% G
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印度僧人沒有被這些侮辱激怒。反而問這位年青人，“告訴我，如果你買一份禮物給別人，那人沒有接受，這禮物歸誰呢？”: t: D2 L2 {) O4 n: s3 `! q
1 m) a1 B( Z0 H. ~( r如果你是對的，就不需要生氣；如果你是錯的，你沒有權利生氣。對家人有耐心是愛；對他人有耐心是尊敬，對自己有耐心是自信。對過去不要多想，它會令你流涙。不要多想未來，它會帶來恐懼。活在當下，它帶來愉悦！我們生活中的每一個試煉不是令我們苦毒就是讓我們得勝。尋找美好的心，而不是美麗的臉蛋。美麗的東西不都是好的；但是良善的東西都是美的。) I# j" b& L1 }% Q0 m