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) F P/ e+ r1 t0 m* U5 r! RA man bought a new pair of trousers for his primary school mates’ reunion dinner. When he tried out at home, he found that the trousers were too long by 10cm.7 Y, S9 Z& i; _: P# z) o 他回家穿上後，卻發覺長度多了十公分。於是請求媽媽替他改。 e3 ?! e2 b# k媽媽說，身體不舒服，想早一點休息,今晚不想改。 - I9 ]- l. i: g4 b& q2 x! U
; U- i# S& y7 c0 @/ ZHe asked his mother to help him shorten the pants. His mother said she could not do it as she was not feeling well and would like to rest early. . G% v/ R- t9 ]% D9 [ 於是, 改請求太太替他改。太太說,還有許多家事要做，今晚沒有時間改。 ; @: v. |) o3 B9 K9 F8 Y5 b* u6 ?
( A. U- L$ r* w1 c" k# C& p6 K9 sSo the man approached his wife to shorten his pants. His wife said she was very tired and had a lot of work to do that night, so she could not help him to shorten the pants that night. 7 H% f6 @, C4 |$ v+ g" W+ O於是, 改請求女兒替他改。女兒說，今晚跟男朋友約好去跳舞，沒有時間改。 ' A$ C) c+ S8 g, F; W" d& s/ l
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Then the man asked his daughter. His daughter apologized for not able to do it that night because she had agreed to go dancing with her boyfriend 5 }- J. g& `" x% P 他想想，既然如此，明天穿舊的長褲去同學會也可以！ k; v( E8 O# \( w+ o$ L& J
; r, E# n1 m: u: v4 Z"Ah well!" The man thought and decided he could wear his old trousers to the reunion. ( z2 F) r! y# o1 Z5 l" `' g當天晚上，他媽媽心想：「兒子平時對我很孝順，他開口要求總不好拒絕他。」於是，起來替兒子改長褲，剪短了十公分。 : K! n# r- A% U! L6 j9 i
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Later that night, his mother thought to herself, "My son has been very nice to me. I ' ll just help him to shorten his pants before going to rest." So she shortened the pants by 10cm. 1 F* j# ?$ ^9 {% A- a Q: I2 |( J* ^; _他太太稍晚做完家事, 心想：「老公平時很有耐心，今天他是不會縫針線才開口要求，總不好拒絕他.」於是替先生改長褲，剪短了十公分。 % {8 l, S( l6 Z
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Then his wife finished her work and thought," My husband knows I am always very busy and seldom asked me to help him. I would oblige him today." So she shortened the man ' s pants by another 10cm. ) h8 d- S2 g) B5 c* E" v他女兒晚上回來： 「爸爸不阻止我去跳舞，實在是開明的老爸，今天實在應該替他修改長褲。」於是替爸爸改長褲，剪短了十公分。 ) d; r# C0 D7 f' F" i0 l q+ M& H3 X& C% JHis daughter came home from dancing, and thought, "Papa loves me very much and when I declined to shorten his pants, he was not angry at all! I would help him to shorten his pants." So she shortened her daddy ' s pants yet another 10cm.2 {! b; y `- m; ?# b 第二天早上，三個女人分別告訴男主人此事。他一試長褲，已經變成七分褲了。 # A7 Y8 _# i t9 A& p+ U+ u' ?& i) \0 I2 \
On the next day, the three ladies told the man that his pants were shortened. He tried them on and found that his pants had become shorter by 30cm! % v. O/ x# c/ C& _$ H7 B: E/ W9 R, t他的反應「是...............」 0 D. c6 }& }" x- P* N/ A* _+ H+ P3 y
哈哈一笑，說：「我一定要穿去給同學看，告訴他們， - N8 h6 g. s6 a z% p% M我的媽媽、太太、和女兒對我多好。」 0 \. p- t9 m6 E$ a) H2 b" L( l
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He laughed heartily, and said, "I must wear this pair of pants to show my schoolmates that my mum, my wife and my daughter are such loving people."; b/ X5 `) G# [& W 結果，老同學們一致稱讚他家庭經營成功。( {5 G( h( s( L
他的媽媽、太太、和女兒也都很高興。 5 _0 z% F" N7 |# L' S+ c
5 }" {3 A# {# G* w5 o$ D) EAt the dinner, his old classmates were very envious of his loving family. His mother, wife and daughter were very happy to learn about his classmates ' reaction. v; a# V+ c8 T m5 m 如果您是故事中的男人或女人，當下您會做何反應？& [/ \: O+ r' N. B
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What would you do if it happened to you? ! e( ~7 M M9 m/ P$ V7 @Have a good laugh, or start swearing? 6 @) w3 {) J2 L: w 人，面對外人時，總是可以表現得雍容大肚、心平氣和，但面對自己最親近的家人，卻往往一點小事,就足以皺起眉頭，甚至出言相傷。 ; M( m; G9 X8 ]: H [% h$ K F0 L5 K% |
Many of us have "High EQ" when dealing with people outside the family, "Low EQ" when dealing with our own family members! This is not an exaggeration at all.5 I+ n. G# p" ~- B2 j 如果形容人類是一種「出門高E.Q，回家低E.Q」的動物，我想一點兒也不誇張， " b( H4 N1 {9 @- s0 }
多拿出一點耐心與幽默感給家人吧！否則您自己也不會快樂，不是嗎？ 6 F+ U' l+ n7 G2 O. c* E0 p
請傳閱，或許今天正有人需要它！ ( T$ W5 l- x/ J; O8 M9 o# v4 K9 @7 Q- ?# U" n5 N& X# e/ k: j" c: a0 i: n 也許, 我只是你生命中的過客...並未留下任何痕跡..但我希望的是... 2 X! S+ D' y! O k/ k- h當你回想起過去的時候..在你回憶中的那個我,是無可取代的..; \* p$ I! S* Z# @4 g
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緣份,是找到包容你的人. 9 ~9 O; f& N! L0 B
9 n2 C3 x+ t& \/ |/ J 作者: 閒閒來逛 時間: 2012-5-27 17:07
人，面對外人時，總是可以表現得雍容大肚、心平氣和，但面對自己最親近的家人，卻往往一點小事,就足以皺起眉頭，甚至出言相傷。 + i I1 ?/ t( B% L4 a很好的文章 + E% G& z6 Q% }% K9 y謝謝分享 : {7 Y! ~5 w3 Z, m3 ^$ O作者: 歐陽 時間: 2012-5-28 01:22
多拿出一點耐心與幽默感給家人吧！否則您自己也不會快樂，
