& J3 {, N; w0 D9 R 7 i* [& X8 ?6 f- o2 y4 A' b這位大大,您過誇了!這在某些國家,往往是居家男人必備的技能,老爸帶著兒子搞,即是休閑互動也是訓練生活常識!5 w- b! S, w `- Q$ b! V* n) O s$ x
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只是我們這兒很奇怪!大伙忙著賺錢,怕錢不夠花。卻又因沒時間而花大錢,請別人代勞些事!+ V: H+ J# J; |- |; e3 n5 k# |
左手進,右手出!錢財沒留到,卻也喪失了體驗某些事物的經驗與技能! * { I" i) u; ~" w6 }7 O( G J 6 o8 {: x* H" Y% L, a. o& m$ T: p不禁想起達賴喇嘛的一段話: & d3 W$ W+ l) b4 X9 \- L6 n5 o8 A==============1 ]9 a A! j1 S7 F
有人問達賴喇嘛:「關於人性,最讓您感到驚訝的是什麼?」 ) W4 }6 g, E0 x7 X& D3 L6 T, M達賴喇嘛:「人們,為了賺錢,而犧牲健康。為了修復身體,而犧牲錢財。 . E: A1 |& L! c& `* H然後,因擔心未來,無法享受現在。就這樣,無法活在當下。 , E. T6 e. ?; p/ t6 x z- p3 z$ W活著時,忘了生命是短暫的。 # j3 `8 m" e$ U6 z( p9 Y3 {- M死時,才發現未曾好好地活著。」 $ a' H* M* Y q/ |1 O* Z9 N- v& o“Man surprised me most about humanity. l7 q' V2 N: Z( L7 z8 T4 z% s- sBecause he sacrifices his health in order to make money. 7 U6 b" L) @! }8 f4 C5 D8 `1 @' iThen he sacrifices money to recuperate his health.6 V1 G/ ~! W: _% e' H6 X
And then he is so anxious about the future that he does not enjoy the present; the result being that he does not live in the present or the future; he lives as if he is never going to die, and then dies having never really lived.”+ O( u0 i8 l% n) Y, M
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