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這位大大,您過誇了!這在某些國家,往往是居家男人必備的技能,老爸帶著兒子搞,即是休閑互動也是訓練生活常識! 9 L: t2 p' y6 n% i: z& |7 I9 l7 Y3 m- j! N; L
只是我們這兒很奇怪!大伙忙著賺錢,怕錢不夠花。卻又因沒時間而花大錢,請別人代勞些事!( T3 F8 |! i. g. R3 g! K
左手進,右手出!錢財沒留到,卻也喪失了體驗某些事物的經驗與技能!* U$ W7 Q% K# U3 M
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不禁想起達賴喇嘛的一段話: , s b y# I4 x p/ h6 Z============== ( E* T2 A! a5 Z7 Z" q$ x) W4 Z. x有人問達賴喇嘛:「關於人性,最讓您感到驚訝的是什麼?」9 ~! o0 L8 W: u! g
達賴喇嘛:「人們,為了賺錢,而犧牲健康。為了修復身體,而犧牲錢財。( c. R& ]7 ]$ n- Q! G
然後,因擔心未來,無法享受現在。就這樣,無法活在當下。 ' l, S& k5 B7 W- b* }; k% O j活著時,忘了生命是短暫的。 + R3 ?$ r; Q. W/ W+ I7 a死時,才發現未曾好好地活著。」 ! `/ [) G+ h) {; z- j( q“Man surprised me most about humanity. & }: z1 D" v) L& Z9 t2 r: q* a/ ZBecause he sacrifices his health in order to make money., J0 M5 Q2 o) f }( y4 i3 @& A
Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health. / l4 F4 n0 k! vAnd then he is so anxious about the future that he does not enjoy the present; the result being that he does not live in the present or the future; he lives as if he is never going to die, and then dies having never really lived.” ) j. }+ m/ w8 C+ L) a' {==============