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這位大大,您過誇了!這在某些國家,往往是居家男人必備的技能,老爸帶著兒子搞,即是休閑互動也是訓練生活常識! : V6 [+ n( I3 u1 R0 I9 \9 Q& G! Y K5 D3 w2 F% g
只是我們這兒很奇怪!大伙忙著賺錢,怕錢不夠花。卻又因沒時間而花大錢,請別人代勞些事!+ S) J- p9 P W' Y/ J
左手進,右手出!錢財沒留到,卻也喪失了體驗某些事物的經驗與技能!% A! \; j1 p) ?+ I% b
% u, I# x! U/ ^# K7 F) F0 w+ F不禁想起達賴喇嘛的一段話:& E' m+ ?7 t j+ q
============== 2 C; ?9 O& x# w, ^有人問達賴喇嘛:「關於人性,最讓您感到驚訝的是什麼?」' T( \/ {8 j g) @6 o0 G* v
達賴喇嘛:「人們,為了賺錢,而犧牲健康。為了修復身體,而犧牲錢財。 ( n3 w+ r( v" ?3 Y然後,因擔心未來,無法享受現在。就這樣,無法活在當下。 8 v7 |, @7 d9 @1 Y/ t8 V活著時,忘了生命是短暫的。 - t* W/ M' x3 _6 b8 Q" u/ }7 h' `" Y死時,才發現未曾好好地活著。」! x$ A) a: Z6 g3 q9 z
“Man surprised me most about humanity. , d! l+ k+ P9 O. ]6 ]+ R1 RBecause he sacrifices his health in order to make money.( L: l! H1 {, `3 K$ w
Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health.+ i8 v! k7 b3 h) E$ c* @
And then he is so anxious about the future that he does not enjoy the present; the result being that he does not live in the present or the future; he lives as if he is never going to die, and then dies having never really lived.”- Z: G5 |' ~- P+ V6 C# y2 n
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