$ c( ^2 e2 S4 l. l9 X8 B 0 S% a6 ` X; T0 M3 X( U這位大大,您過誇了!這在某些國家,往往是居家男人必備的技能,老爸帶著兒子搞,即是休閑互動也是訓練生活常識!" ~1 x- c/ f, `* A' D
; T# P* O! F5 t4 ~只是我們這兒很奇怪!大伙忙著賺錢,怕錢不夠花。卻又因沒時間而花大錢,請別人代勞些事! % y, |& W8 r8 o6 G" ]. V3 P* m* `左手進,右手出!錢財沒留到,卻也喪失了體驗某些事物的經驗與技能!$ |2 a" g1 b; ~9 M6 C
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不禁想起達賴喇嘛的一段話:3 w0 e$ z" i: |$ M2 n# e
============== * D( C& d& a ?2 @有人問達賴喇嘛:「關於人性,最讓您感到驚訝的是什麼?」 ' ?: p5 X3 V; B4 n$ X. b9 L達賴喇嘛:「人們,為了賺錢,而犧牲健康。為了修復身體,而犧牲錢財。 6 \7 R T! `4 l, u然後,因擔心未來,無法享受現在。就這樣,無法活在當下。 % b( L! a- w4 ^/ z) C3 Y活著時,忘了生命是短暫的。 2 e9 E. j7 d& F, p, i- Y2 s; J7 ~死時,才發現未曾好好地活著。」2 b5 C. j: j8 S$ U1 O- ]3 ?, u
“Man surprised me most about humanity.8 f: n" ~: ^; u6 y6 o5 Y
Because he sacrifices his health in order to make money. 9 @1 W# F' r$ u1 @! F3 F! SThen he sacrifices money to recuperate his health.' @! d* C* G, j1 X8 K/ o
And then he is so anxious about the future that he does not enjoy the present; the result being that he does not live in the present or the future; he lives as if he is never going to die, and then dies having never really lived.”7 c6 J/ X9 K& B. @; ^3 [
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